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Tag Archives: family
odd one out.
I might as well not even exist in my family. In fact, I wish I didn’t. A couple of months ago, I made up a funny nickname for my daughter. I’ve called her that name often ever since. My husband … Continue reading
Posted in family, life, parenting, writing
Tagged family, life, parenting, whatsandrathinks, writing
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wardrobe change.
Nobody will let me change. In my teens, I started to notice I wasn’t as happy as my friends, and my wardrobe took a dark turn toward various shades of black (such as black, blacker, and blackest). In my 20s, … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, depression, life, writing
Tagged anxiety, depression, family, life, whatsandrathinks, writing
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why I hate myself.
I debated whether or not posting this was a good idea. I came to the conclusion that it is a bad idea. But here I am. Yeah. That’s not actually me. But it doesn’t matter. And now I shall tell … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, depression, life, writing
Tagged anxiety, depression, family, life, mental health, parenting, whatsandrathinks, writing
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maybe you really like me.
… or you really like that I’m miserable. I will explain. (Sorry.) You know how I always worry about posting my personal struggles because I’m overwhelmed with shame and embarrassment over it? You know how I worry that those posts … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, depression, life, writing
Tagged anxiety, depression, family, life, mental health, parenting, whatsandrathinks, writing
46 Comments
she fuckin’ hates me.
My daughter hates me. This has been the case for well over a year. Maybe two years. Maybe longer. I can’t even remember. (And the last year and a half kind of melted into one big lump of crap, so … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, depression, life, writing
Tagged anxiety, depression, family, life, parenting, whatsandrathinks, writing
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the year was 2020.
And that year is over. ‘Yay‘ I guess? But contrary to what many seem to think, the clock striking midnight on January 1st didn’t suddenly send us to the comfort of the before times. So… I thought I’d try finding … Continue reading
Posted in holidays, humor, life, writing
Tagged family, holidays, humor, life, quarantine, reading, whatsandrathinks, writing
24 Comments
birthday cake.
Yesterday was my daughter’s birthday. She is officially 11 years old now. If you follow me on instagram (which is not at all exciting), I posted about going out to dinner last night… which was delicious. I think I enjoyed … Continue reading
Posted in family, writing
Tagged birthday, cake, family, life, whatsandrathinks, writing
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then and now.
[I post this at the risk of showing my age. But I’ll never confirm anything so let’s just forget all about that right now. Thanks.] Let’s face it… this owl was kind of a dick. He totally stole that kid’s … Continue reading