31 questions | march 23.

March 23
What’s your recipe for recuperating from extreme heartbreak?

I don’t know that I have a way to recuperate. I’m still not over one of my heartbreaks. I think I just found a way to push it aside, but I know it’s still there… lurking in the shadows of my mind… waiting for just the right moment to jump out and crush me.

ripped heart.

I can, however, tell you what I’ve done in the past: cry, eat copious amounts of chocolate [and maybe even get some cheesecake involved], cry some more, talk/cry to girlfriends, and, a couple of times, fuck someone else.

p.s. — Does it count if I broke my own heart? Actually, that’s probably the case in 90% of all heartbreak I’ve ever experienced. All my fault. 

[Thanks to my lovely friend Marquessa for this 31 questions challenge.]

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About what sandra thinks

Sandra is a writer, sometimes blogger, poet, artist, emotional disaster. She thinks far too much and sleeps far too little. Sandra lives in the Northeastern U.S. but dreams of an oceanfront home in Italy, but she would settle for a non-oceanfront home in Italy. She loves books, brutal honesty, coffee, and the color black. She hates insincerity, beer, whipped cream, and facebook. And she is uncomfortable talking about herself in the third person.
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11 Responses to 31 questions | march 23.

  1. Cheesecake is handy in lots of situations!

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  2. gigglingfattie says:

    I have only had my heart really broken once. And I cried a lot, and might have found comfort from a very inappropriate person 🤭 it was not the most healthy or smart choice but it did help. Its just been minor disappointments since then, but now I tend to let myself have time alone to heal haha

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  3. jrvincente says:

    That’s tough. 😦

    Liked by 1 person

  4. Karin says:

    Thank you for wriiting this

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