
it’s nothing major
no need to worry
it’ll be okay
it’s just a little thing
it shouldn’t feel like
the end of the world
but it does… although
it’s just a little thing
something I can’t fix
has untold power
to ruin my day
it’s just a little thing
will I ever learn
to have perspective?
because after all
it’s just a little thing
my heart is broken
no need to worry
it’ll be okay
it’s just a little thing

©2018 what sandra thinks
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Sandra is a writer, sometimes blogger, poet, artist, emotional disaster. She thinks far too much and sleeps far too little. Sandra lives in the Northeastern U.S. but dreams of an oceanfront home in Italy, but she would settle for a non-oceanfront home in Italy. She loves books, brutal honesty, coffee, and the color black. She hates insincerity, beer, whipped cream, and facebook. And she is uncomfortable talking about herself in the third person.
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I sung know what to say. Things are not improving. I feel totally jinxed. Seriously… how much is one person supposed to have to handle? Not even just me… the kids, too. I passed on the curse, I guess.
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I don’t believe that. I wish you didn’t either. All I know to say is do not give up, and do not give in to those feelings. Positive begets positive. Cliche? Yes. True? Yes. 😊
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It’s not true. I’ve tried it and nothing good ever happens. I just get cut down all over again… and again… and again. What I think or feel or want doesn’t matter… it changes nothing. And I feel like I’ve brought this onto my family as well… and I don’t know how to fix it… to break the curse. I’m tired of trying. There truly seems to be no point.
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Don’t make me get all tough-love on you. You don’t believe this, truly, in your heart, do you?
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I do right now. Not sure if that will ever change.
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Grrrr. Hmph. You are going to make my head explode. You’re challenging my positivity like nobody ever has. You are going to make me break out all the stops and resort to all sorts of desperate measures to make you smile or laugh or something. Game on! 🤡
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I’m sorry. Please don’t let me ruin your day or your mood. I’m just a mess and so tired of things always getting worse instead of better. I just don’t feel like I can handle any more of this. I wish I could just disappear or something.
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You’re not ruining shit. But as god is my witness, I’m gonna make you smile at least once before the day is over dammit! Mark my words! 💪🏻
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I don’t know how… I’m sorry… 🙁 this has been an awful week and it’s only Tuesday… ugh.
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Well, it can only go up from here then, right? 😃
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Um… that’s what I thought yesterday… clearly, I was wrong… 😐
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Man. You’re killin’ me. I don’t know what to say. I sure hope it gets better though. 😔
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It’s alright. It’s not your responsibility… but it sure is nice of you to try to make me feel better. If there were any easy answers, I’d already have them, you know? Maybe I’m just too far down… and the rope can’t reach me…
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Oh, I’m not done. When get home, you’re getting a barrage of ridiculous jokes, via a couple of 12 year olds. Prepare to be amused. 😏
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Oh boy… I should have known you weren’t done… You are funny.
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Yes….you should have known. 🤓
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Did you know that you can tell the difference between an alligator and a crocodile by whether it sees you later or after while ?
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Oh my god.
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Yep. 😃
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A sheep, a drum, and a snake fell off a cliff… bah dum ssssssss.
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Wow
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Yep yep.
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A guy walks into a bar with a bundle of asphalt under his arm and says, “I’ll take a beer for me and one for the road.”
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I don’t like beer. 😛
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Yes, I remember. Un-American. 😃
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I’d rather be British… but that doesn’t work either… I’d still need to like beer. And tea. Ugh. No… coffee. And girly drinks.
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Not just beer, but warm, thick beer. 😜
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Yeah. I’ve had it. It’s gross…
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Me too. I’m a beer fan, and dark beer too. Guinness is a fave. But I want it cold. Brits have some odd tastes.
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I felt compelled to try Guinness when I was in London but… eww…
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Almost need a knife and a fork.
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Oh gross!
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Hahaha! 😃😃
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Never try to explain a pawn to a kleptomaniac. They take things…literally.
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The midget fortuneteller who killed his customer is now a small medium at large.
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Oh jeez
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Mmmhmm. 😃
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What would Darth Vader’s Disney theme song be?
“Wish Upon A Death Star”
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Are used to think my brain was my most important Oregon… But then I thought, “Look who is telling me that!”
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I don’t think I get this one…?
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Because the brain is where thoughts come from so of course it would masked one think it’s most important. Remember, 12 year olds. 😃
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I probably need to be a kid to get it. Like Adventure Time. HA… see… I made a joke!
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Heeyyyy! There ya’ go! 😃😃
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I asked God for a bike. But then I thought, God does not work that way. So I stole a bike and asked for forgiveness
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I have a feeling I wouldn’t get the bike or the forgiveness… 😛
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Dammit! You’re supposed to be laughing!!! 😏
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Sorry… 😐
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I think you are but won’t admit it. 😜
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Admitting it goes against everything I believe in…
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Yes, I know. 😃
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Relationships are a lot like algebra. Have you ever looked at your x and thought y?
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Yes. Nice math joke.
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Thought you’d appreciate that one. 🤓
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You really are crazy.
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Not the first time I’ve heard that. 😏
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Smiling yet?
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You are crazy. So… maybe a little. 😛
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Woot! 🤙🏻
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*Warm hug*
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Thanks… yeah, I’m sorry I’m such a downer… starting to wonder if things are ever going to turn around…
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Don’t say that, Sandra… You’re not a downer, I just wish I had the perfect healing words. But I can only offer my best thoughts until things are better for you… xx
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I’m sorry. I really do wish I had something good to share. Thanks for being here, though. ♥
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Really nothing to be sorry about, Sandra 🙂
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Good reminder. I love this. ❤
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Thank you ♥
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A little thing can still have a lot of power… 😞❤️
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Yes… very much so. Whole days destroyed in seconds. Hmm, that’s a good line for my next depressing piece of work…
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It is a good line… is writing helping?
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Maybe a little. I don’t know… I’m just done.
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Oh honey don’t say that… this is a bad time of year. It’s grey and cold and blech. I’m sorry you’re feeling so bad. And I don’t know what else to say… ❤️
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It’s okay… there’s really nothing anyone can say. I don’t think things are ever going to change. That’s just how it is.
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ohhhhh very bitter. ❤
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I guess there’s some anger thrown in with the sadness… that kind of equals bitter…
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The little things are sometimes not so little 😦
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No they’re not. But even when they are, my head makes them huge…
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Me too sometimes 😕
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Little things CAN be fixed one at a time. Eat away at them and then cast them aside and move on to the next one. You are not going to make me feel the same way as you do at the moment. I refuse to go there, and so should you. You can turn this around Sandra, and you have to have your husband and kids help you, but YOU have to start the process. Don’t give up on yourself. There are loads of us out here who care very much for you and want to see the positive lady back again.
Hugs, and more hugs. They are very good for the little things!
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I don’t mean for this to sound harsh and it’s certainly not personal… but I am so sick of the “yes you can” crap. Normal people without the same issues that I have… maybe they can. But there are things beyond my control. Some that would be beyond anyone’s control. And I am not capable of the same things other people are capable of. That is a fact. You may not believe it… no one may believe it… but I, and at least two professionals, believe it. I am just not there. I wish someone telling me I “can” would change everything but it won’t. Obviously, if it were that simple, I’d be fine.
That being said, I do hate that little things bother me as much as they do. I cannot fix them… things with my kids, things with people I cannot control? I cannot fix them. But it would be nice if they didn’t upset me as much as they do.
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I’m happy for your daughter that she was able to do what she has done. I don’t think people have no idea what I’m going through… and I know that their words and thoughts are genuine.
I am not assuming anything.
I am just frustrated as hell with people telling me that I “can” do things that I cannot do… RIGHT NOW. Maybe someday I will be able to. But right now, I cannot, so it is the equivalent of someone telling me to fly a plane. I can’t RIGHT NOW. If I ever learn how, then maybe I can. But right now, I cannot. That seems to be what some people don’t understand.
I appreciate your thoughts. I really do. But in the future, if you want to express thoughts of this nature, I prefer it be privately. I will leave this comment up for a little while in hopes that you’ll see it but then I’m removing it. Thanks.
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I stopped by to see if you were feeling better, but I’ve just read the comments and I know you’re not. I have no words of wisdom, but I do know how you feel, and I don’t say that lightly. Some people breeze through life, then there are the ones like us!
They may only be little things but each one wears you down more and more.
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♥ Thank you so much. There are no easy answers… that’s for sure. But it is nice to feel less alone… to know someone understands… and doesn’t just tell me to ‘snap out of it’ or ‘you can do anything’. If it were only that simple… right? I wish!
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Take care and never feel alone x
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Thank you ♥
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The littlest things can be the most painful. This is a gorgeously heartaching piece.
I really like this it resonates powerfully to anyone who tries to be strong when the world is falling down around them
I’ve been trying to be more honest in my own life. Not to give a size and weight to problems… just let them be recognised. Don’t know if it’s doing me any good.
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Thank you. ♥ I hate that the little things bother me so much. Probably because in my mind, they don’t feel little… they feel huge.
I probably spend too much time recognizing my problems. I think I need to work on ignoring some of them… 🙂
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As do we all. The little things are always the ones that snowball
Recognising your problems is a great ability. It’s the management of them that can be tricky.
Ignoring can work but only in the short term. Sometimes honesty is the best way… no matter how bad it gets.
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Yeah… I have no trouble identifying problems. Resolving them, though? Much harder. Sometimes, I can work something out and even if it only helps one little thing, it feels like I’ve performed a miracle.
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…and those small miracles have the same power and the bad things. Small things make life what it is
Keep performing those miracles ♥
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Well written!!
Little things affect us a lot. 🙂
Sending positive vibes 💫
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Thanks
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