don’t lie to me.


What’s the point? What good could possibly come from a lie?

I understand omission. Some things are better left unsaid.


If I ask you a question… point blank… even if you think I might be better off not knowing the answer… don’t fucking lie to me.

Guess what?

I’m going to find out anyway. Somehow, I always do. Maybe because I’m a fucking genius. And definitely because you’re a fucking moron.

Don’t worry… I won’t call you out. Maybe you’ll think all is forgiven. But I will know. I will always know. And apologizing doesn’t erase your act of dishonesty so don’t bother. I will remember.

Forgiving is possible. Forgetting is not.

I hope it was worth it.

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About what sandra thinks

Sandra is a writer, sometimes blogger, poet, artist, emotional disaster. She thinks far too much and sleeps far too little. Sandra lives in the Northeastern U.S. but dreams of an oceanfront home in Italy, but she would settle for a non-oceanfront home in Italy. She loves books, brutal honesty, coffee, and the color black. She hates insincerity, beer, whipped cream, and facebook. And she is uncomfortable talking about herself in the third person.
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44 Responses to don’t lie to me.

  1. My goodness. I don’t know what happened, but you certainly didn’t deserve it.

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  2. Kay says:

    I hope it was worth it.

    When someone I love has lied to me, I’ve always said to myself……I wish I was worth it (the truth). In retrospect, intellectually know that person had his/her own baggage and reason, but emotionally, the chunk is missing. Takes a lot to get it back, if ever.

    I’m so sorry if you’ve been hurt by a lie. Hugs and love to you.

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  3. I’ve come to realize my wife rarely asks a question that she doesn’t already know the answer to. I’m guessing most women are similar. I’m with you though, lying is shitty, and erodes trust quicker than anything else can.

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  4. Thinking of you, Lovely. If you ever need a badass bitch to back you up, count me in your posse. I hate a liar.


  5. Meg Sorick says:

    Oh my! I hope everything’s ok! 😦 ❤

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  6. Honesty is always better. Period.

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  7. gigglingfattie says:

    aww dang! Hugs Sandra!! I can’t bring myself to like this post…I feel like I would just be supporting this feeling of betrayal. But I will offer the use of my ginger rage to beat whoever made you feel this way *she said smiling a sweet angelic smile with evil thoughts glinting out of her eyes*

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  8. VictoryInTrouble says:

    I hope whatever happened gets worked out. I really don’t like liars. Hugs! ❤

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  9. Your post is wonderful. Nobody deserves to hear lies but on some notes a lie or 2 do have to be spoken

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  10. magarisa says:

    I’m sorry you were lied to, Sandra. It’s so painful when someone you love breaks your trust.

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  11. stephieann8 says:

    I’ll never understand why

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  12. This exact thing happened at work over the last two weeks. Pro tip: Lying to HR will win you a spot on the unemployment line….

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