Category Archives: bloggingu

identity neurosis.

I began rewriting my ‘about’ page last week. It was mere coincidence that this exact activity popped up as an assignment for Blogging 101 a couple of days ago. My original ‘about’ page was fine. But I hate fine. I … Continue reading

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everybody else.

Some days, I want to be everybody else. "Why is writing so much harder for me than it is for everybody else?" — every novelist ever, secretly to themselves, all the time — Lev Grossman (@leverus) April 28, 2015 I … Continue reading

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headspace.

I used to write sitting at a gorgeous 60-year-old mahogany desk, carefully and expertly handcrafted by my late grandfather-in-law. It was nestled in the corner of our spare room. I would type away into the night. A big cozy chair beside … Continue reading

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graceless.

I’m trying, but I’m graceless Don’t have the sunny side to face this I am invisible and weightless You can’t imagine how I hate this – from “Graceless” lyrics by Matt Berninger | The National Some days, every damn thing … Continue reading

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laughter.

A great sense of humor is one of the most attractive qualities in a person. I don’t know how anyone can live without it. I think we all have moments when we have to laugh… or we’d cry. I tend … Continue reading

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when she knew.

“When did you know?” he asked. His fingers gently tucked her hair behind her ear. “When did I know what?” She knew exactly what he was after but she made him work for it. And she made him smile. “Oh … Continue reading

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one word is all it takes. shhh.

A single word can flood your mind with memories or dreams or disappointments. It might give you a warm, happy feeling or it might fill you with dread and despair. Hope. I’ve written about it here and here. Regret. Choice. I’ve … Continue reading

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eleven things I learned from…

The series ended 12 years ago, but it taught us some valuable truths. Read them. Heed them. And you can thank me later. 11 things I learned from Buffy the Vampire Slayer Never underestimate the power of a pointy stick. … Continue reading

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