Tomorrow is my stupid birthday. I’m writing about it mostly because I have nothing else to write about. And maybe tomorrow I’ll write about it again just to recount my ‘special‘ day.
Ugh.
Getting older sucks. I used to say I’d like to go back to 13 and fix things. But really, I think it’d be even better to go back to about 6 and stay there forever.
My childhood was good. Really good. I didn’t have responsibilities or stress. But also, times were just different. Life was different. Being a kid back then was so much better than it is now. I don’t want to give away my age or anything (yeah, 29 is a lie… sorry), but times were different… simpler… safer. Less technology, less constant bad news, less badness in general. Things haven’t gotten better with time. They’ve gotten worse. Much worse.
I was told, when I get older, all my fears would shrink
But now I’m insecure, and I care what people think
I try to keep being a dreamer, but it’s a lot harder now. There’s too much out there screaming at me to be a grown-up… which totally gets in the way of my dreams. As does reality. Like age and shit. It’s no fun anymore. It’s too bad I didn’t know how great I had it back then… because damn, would I ever enjoy it now!
Used to dream of outer space, but now they’re laughin’ at our face
Singin’, “wake up, you need to make money!” Yeah
So… happy birthday to me. But I already know the best thing that’s going to happen tomorrow is cheesecake. Come to think of it, that’s the best thing that can happen to any day. But let’s not forget the massive lottery win… the ultimate gift (aside from true love). See? I still dream. Sigh.
Wish we could turn back time
To the good old days
When our momma sang us to sleep but
Now we’re stressed out
Obviously I am not the owner of any rights to this song, video, or lyrics… just everything else…
©2018 what sandra thinks
Happy early birthday! 🎂
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Thanks… 🙂
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Your very welcome!😁
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Happy early birthday. It’s good to smell daisies instead of pushing them up.
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Well… I guess that’s true. But there are no daisies around at the moment. 🙂 Maybe they’re coming with summer…
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Things were so much nicer and simpler back in my early days, too. If we only knew! Anyway, enjoy your cheesecake, and I’ll wish you a Happy Birthday! 🙂
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Yes… if only I had a time machine…
Thank you.
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Oh that song is the best. It spells it all out perfectly. I did not have a great childhood, but I’d go back to 5 or 6 and try again anyway. But only if I had foreknowledge of all the things I’d screw up. Ugh. I hope you have a happy day, sweetie! 😘
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Thanks. ♥ I don’t have high hopes. Maybe that’s good… so less disappointment? Or maybe that’s not good. I don’t know which anymore…
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😕
❤️❤️❤️
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Happy Birthday Week! Hope you get a few good surprises out of the deal. At least cheesecake’s always good!
Mona
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Thanks…
The only surprises I usually get are bad ones… so I’m more scared than anything…!
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Awe……your special day is tomorrow! You’re very special to me. I adore you and am so thrilled to call you my friend. I’m going to try hard to be a better friend. I’ve just been in a deep rut lately. 😘
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Me, too. I’m not sure I’m coming out this time. The birthday only makes it worse. It’s hard to wish for a good day without hope… and I lost that.
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I’m sorry Darlin’ I hope tomorrow will be a good day and you get that yummy cheesecake 😘
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I’d really like it to be made out of solid gold or something so I can trade it in for cash. But I’m pretty sure that’s not going to happen…
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Me too……love your imagination.
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I am not sure how to interpret this… lol. I know I’m not 20 anymore but I hope I don’t bite the dust…
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I meant… another year bites the dust and I love that song! LOL! Puts me in a bad ass mood!
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It depresses me. The years passing, not the song. But the song is too repetitious for me. I only need to hear about 30 seconds of it and then I’m all set. LOL
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Happy early Birthday!
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Thanks!
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Your welcome sweetest!
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Happy birthday Sandra. I totally feel you and there are days that I silently hum ‘wish we could turn back time’ in my head. I didn’t know that I had it good till I became an adult and adulting is hard.
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Exactly! I tell my kids to enjoy it now… you’ll miss it later. Thanks so much!
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I agree, birthdays are stupid and not special, so why do people insist on celebrating them? I’m dreading hitting 50 in 4 years time (or thereabouts). I rather not be reminded that I’m getting older!
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Yes… being reminded of that makes it kind of a bad day… not a good one. I just use it as an excuse to eat cake…
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Happy Birthday Sandra!!!! I know how you feel. I couldn’t wait for my birthday to end, yesterday. If it weren’t for Mel Gutier’s message, I probably would have stayed in bed all day. A few friends came by for cake, but for the most part I still just wanted to stay in bed.
I do truly hope you have a wonderful birthday though! Many warm wishes for the new year ahead of you! 🙂
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Thank you so much! I would like to hide all day and forget it’s my birthday. So depressing. But at least I get cake. I hope you have a wonderful year ahead, too. ♥ 🙂
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I tried to do that yesterday, hide that is. Epic fail. To be honest, I’m happy it’s over with. Enjoy your cake, Sweetie!!!
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Thanks so much!
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Happy birthday!❤
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Thanks ♥
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Ooh, cheesecake! A reason to celebrate right there! Hope you have a birthday that doesn’t totally suck. Bet you have a card for that! Enjoy dessert ❤
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Those are great words for a card. I don’t quite have a birthday version of that, but I guess I should! Thanks… 🙂 ♥
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I have a friend who makes handmade cards and we all tell her they need to be funny! Hers are too sweet…
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I’m pretty good at making bitchy ones. 🙂
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Happy birthday.
I’d like to be in a position to tell you that at some mysterious point in time, on some distant birthday, that things get better, but the evidence is mounting up to suggest the contrary.
As I think we may have discussed, I too would like to go back to 13. But I think I would just go through the process of messing things up again. But probably enjoy that process to some degree, nonetheless.
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Thank you for the birthday wishes. I think that after a certain age… and maybe not the same age for everyone… birthdays become anything but happy.
Unfortunately, going back to 13 would only improve things if I could take my current knowledge with me. Otherwise, I would probably repeat all of my mistakes. But being that age again would be priceless anyway…
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Happy Belated Birthday!! xo
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Thanks. ♥ I’m too old to enjoy birthdays…!
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I’m not a birthday person myself, but you’re never too old to enjoy anything! That’s my personal motto. The only exception is YA novels. At some point, people need to just call it a day. 😂
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Haha… I’ve thought about writing those… 🙂
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Same. Ideally one that gets a three picture movie deal that makes me filthy rich.
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Exactly!
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