I question everything. Every single decision I make. And it’s not just big decisions… it’s every little thing.
Shopping is the worst. I spend forever questioning whether or not to buy things. I have stared at a shirt (or maybe a pint of ice cream or a lipstick) for fifteen minutes trying to come to a decision. And even when I do decide, I question that decision… and usually change my mind ten times before I finally do something. And even then, I regret my decision. But if I return said item, I question that, too. Was that the wrong decision? Should I have kept it? And finally… should I have left the damn house at all?
Oh, speaking of leaving the house, that’s another thing I question. I think, hey, I’ll go somewhere but I question whether I should because I might spend money I don’t have or I might take too long or whatever other craziness enters my mind. But I should get out of the house. But I should do things at home. But…
I’m tired of questioning everything. I wish I could be confident in my decisions. Damn, at least the little ones.
p.s.— I don’t know if I should post this.
p.s. 2— I realize I am a few days behind. I’m working on it…
©2019 what sandra thinks
Halleluja! I’m not the only indecisive being in the world. We could be twins separated at birth. LOL! 😁
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I am so bad with decisions. I hate it! I wish I could just go one way or another and feel good about it. But no… always questioning…
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I hear you, loud and clear. Shopping is by far the worse place for me to be when making decisions. By the time I’m done, I always walk out with a headache.
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Yes. This.
This is a really fun A-Z theme! And I totally agree with your thoughts in this post.
Thanks for choosing to share. I think, in this case, you made the right decision. 🙂
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Thanks so much. I’m glad you enjoyed this. 🙂
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Give yourself a time frame of 10 minutes for a bit. Then set it at 5 minutes. Good or bad. Then live with it. 😃
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Oh… but that’s the problem… I can’t live with it. I’m still anxious today about decisions I made last week… last month… years ago…
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😏😏
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I’m indecisive too, maybe not as much as you’ve described here but definitely indecisive! About so many things!
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I’m just always sure I’m making a mistake… no matter what choice I make…
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Yup same!
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I question everything as well Sandra. It is strange at times that I even question why I question. When I was younger, I used to think I was broken because I often found myself lost in thought, but yeah…..
Anyhow, I am glad to know I am not the only one that question things. Stay awesome!
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I know what you mean… I question why I question, too. And I definitely think too much!
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I agree with setting a time frame for yourself. Sometimes overthinking can lead to making things worse. I find it helps to make a list in the morning of everything that must be done that day and work from there.
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I never seem to be able to stick to a time frame. I either spend forever making a decision or I spend forever regretting the decision I made…
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By any chance, Are you a Libran? I don’t believe in this-sun-sign-that-behaviour but I certainly know whom to blame for my indecisiveness 😀
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I’m a Gemini. So is my mom and while we get along fabulously, we are totally different! I guess maybe my two sides… my inner twins… are fighting it out so I can’t decide on anything??
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Well, there you go… .. whom to blame! Am indecisive for big stuffs like planning vacation, leave from office, school selection, choosing dress for fun trip …blabla, Even that is annoying. I can imagine you!
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It’s awful. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve just skipped going out completely to avoid having to make decisions!
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Questioning things is good! I agree, it may slow you down (I’m also still at q in the a-to-z challenge, so I feel you).
And hey, maybe the rest of the world is just going to fast!
It’s the ones that are certain about everything tha really scare me 😉
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Well… I’m certain about nothing so…
My questioning of things is into crazy-woman territory. Sometimes I just want to shut down my mind. Often, actually.
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Why do you think that is? Do you not trust your judgment or is there something else?
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I don’t trust my judgement. After all the mistakes I’ve made in my life, I feel like that’s all I do–make mistakes. Even if someone else decides something for me, if it ends up being the ‘wrong’ choice, that means I was wrong to decide to do what they suggested. It always comes back to me knowing it was my mistake… my bad decision.
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I’m so sorry you feel that way.. I keep meaning to ask if you’ve seen a library book called Unf#ck Your Brain by Faith G. Harper, PhD. The synopsis sounded interesting…
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I haven’t see the book. I’m going to go look it up…
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Good decision! Well done.
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Hahaha, you remind me of my mom. She’s made pasta, no less than a Thousand times in her life, and she still takes, atleast a half hour to make a decision, in the tomato sauce aisle.
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Yup… that’s me!
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I am the same way!! I can’t make decisions for the life of me & when I do, I always think it was the wrong one or wonder if I had chosen the other wah. My boyfriend always yells at me to “just pick!” & I always say “IDK!” then, when I finally do decide, he’ll be like “couldn’t you have just said that?” & I’ll be thinking “how?! When I JUST decided” LOL.
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Hahaha 🙂 I understand exactly what you mean. Of course you didn’t know until you decided… no matter how long it takes…!
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i’m the same way It’s that i’m the type to except whatever I choose so if it’s bad i’ll take whatever come with that so I take my time way out the pros and cons some ppl say i’m crazy and should just know but do you really know from the moment you wake up will that one decision change your like forever will it be for good or bad. Then when I do pick my anxiety gets the best of me . So i’m learning if something happens that i don’t like i try to change it if I can’t i accept it and make it in to a way that will work for me if not i’ll deal with it until it’s done
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