I really don’t care for the name Sandra. [Sorry, Dad. I know you chose it.]
My whole life I have secretly wished my name was Samantha.
I should have made that my online identity from the start.
Regrets…
p.s.— I have another ‘name secret’. In my fiction drafts, I always use the same lead male character name. Nope, not telling you what it is. I have never used it here… I’ve always changed it before sharing my writing. I guess I feel like it’s mine… only for me… for my eyes only. Because I always fall in love with my male leads. I have a problem, I know.
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I always fall in love with my male leads too. Sigh… I certainly would have chosen a different name for myself as well. Never warmed up to it.
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Don’t feel bad. I never really liked my name either. I get called Terry, Tommy, Timmy. Anything but my actual name. 😜
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Don’t worry about it Gertrude!
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Hahaha! I had a patient that I worked with daily for 3 months, and he called me Steve from the day I met him til the day he d/c’d home. I eventually stopped trying to correct him and started answering to Steve. 😃
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Anything for an easy life!
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One has to pick one’s battles. 😃
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Haha. I would have stopped correcting him, too. That’s funny.
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You should’ve heard him say it! He was half-deaf and spoke at an…accentuated volume. He’d see me coming down the hall and it’d be all, “HEY, STEVE!!!”, all while waving me down…and sometimes in just a brief. He’s to this day, in 20+ years of doing this, and having 100’s Of patients in that time, my all-time favorite. Billy. He was funny dude. 😃
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That’s great. I love funny things like that!
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He was a trip. 😃
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People usually call me Sandra. They don’t get it wrong or anything. I just don’t love it.
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Hahaha. I think yours kinda rolls off the tongue. Mine, not so much. Oh well, I’m sure not going to the trouble of changing it. Not sure what I’d pick. 🤔
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When I went to get a new SS card with my new name after I got married, the woman at the SSA told me I could change it to anything. That was my opportunity and I blew it!
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It’s that easy?!? Wow. I figured there’d be all kinds of red tape. Go figure. 😏
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Not when I had my marriage certificate and went to change in then. I don’t know that it would be that easy any old time. My uncle changed his name. Not sure what he went through. He wanted to honor his father (my late grandpa) and where he came from (Ukraine) so he changed from Joseph to Josef.
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I’d go with something really off the wall and memorable. Go big or go home. 😃
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I almost changed my middle name and I wish I had. But I had no time to think about it because I didn’t know I could do it until I was standing in front of the woman at the desk.
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Hahaha! Gotta be quick on your feet. 😃
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But you would have been called Sam all your life!
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I could have lived with that.
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My mom chose Sandra, my dad wanted Bonnie (barf), but I’ve always been Sandy. However, I too wanted to be Samantha (thank you, “Who’s the Boss?”), and my nickname at camp was always Sam. 😛
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How weird that we both wanted Samantha! I didn’t even think of “Who’s the Boss?”! I was Sandy when I was a little kid but I eventually grew to prefer Sandra and I’m rarely called Sandy now. I kind of hate it. Not for others! I’m not saying I hate your name!! Bonnie would have been worse!
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I bet no one really loves their name. I always wished mine was something else, too! And I was always called Dee or Dida by my family.
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You’re probably right… Even my daughter, who has a beautiful name, by the way 🙂, sometimes says she wishes her name was something else. But I think she is perfect.
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Phew. I am glad to have read that you, and one other blog follower also get crushes on your own characters. I’ve always had a thing for my leading villain, which is kind of sick. Because I’m 39, and he’s 19, and he’s a freak’n Alien.
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Don’t feel bad. I’m older than my leading men… by, um, some years. 🙂
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So curious what name you always choose for your male lead & for what it’s worth– I totally prefer Sandra over Samantha!
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I’m glad someone prefers Sandra! 🙂
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