I’m not looking
for a savior
only comfort
for my failures
just hold my hand
when I’m a mess
I’m only human
under distress
pure and simple
is your mission
just give me love
with no conditions
©2017 what sandra thinks
I’m not looking
for a savior
only comfort
for my failures
just hold my hand
when I’m a mess
I’m only human
under distress
pure and simple
is your mission
just give me love
with no conditions
©2017 what sandra thinks
Liam Sullivan's Ideas and Reflections
Wordpress simulcast of the official A to Z Challenge blog
the fictional journal of Katie K.
“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” — Maya Angelou
Photos, art, and a little bit of LIT.
A Look on the Brighter Side of Life
My wife used to say that to me. Don’t try to fix it, just listen and hold me and be there. Took me a long time to get that. Still have to fight the fix-it urge to this day.
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She’s right. I’ve said that many many times. But I bet you *really* listen… not just sit there and nod and sometimes look completely preoccupied with something else. That’s annoying as hell. The ‘fix-it’ thing is hard to fight… I can understand that. What’s even worse is the ‘fixer’ who can’t offer anything so there’s no fixing, no listening, and lots of ‘I don’t know what to tell you.’ Man, I hate that sentence!
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She used to have to tell me she didn’t need a solution, just an ear and a hug, as a preface to even beginning her talk. The turning point for me was when her mom died. I couldn’t fix it, even though I desperately wanted to. It taught me to just sit with her and listen and acknowledge her hurt. It was hard, because I was hurting too. But I internalize my shit. She has to talk it out.
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It is the exact same way here for us… in that I have to talk it out and he internalizes. Hell, if something’s bothering him, I can tell… but when I ask, he says nothing. So I don’t even know what he’s internalizing most of the time.
You know what’s funny? When I wrote this poem, I wasn’t even thinking of any direct connection to my life. I just liked how ‘savior’ and ‘failures’ worked… and I went from there! LOL
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I guess your subconscious knew what it was doing there. 😃😃
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I was just going to type… “I guess my brain has a mind of its own.” But I’m not sure how that makes any sense at all… 🙂
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Hahaha! Oddly, I totally understand that. Trust me, I butcher and twist the English language all the time. 😃
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This is beautiful.
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Thank you ♥
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Ah…unconditional love. Something we all crave.
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I’m not sure it exists… not completely. It’s one of those things like ‘perfect’… maybe.
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You could very well be right.
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This is absolutely wonderful! May I add it to next month’s poetry newsletter?
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Thank you so much! Yes, of course you can. 🙂 ♥
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Thank you so much!
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Of course! I’m flattered that you want to include it. ♥
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It’s awesome! Why wouldn’t I?
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I don’t know but thanks! 🙂
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😊😊 Always!
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Just so lovely. And I will always be there to support you!
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Aww, thank you! You’re so sweet. 🙂 ♥
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I love this. ButI tend to have that ‘I need to fix things’ approach and I frustrate myself when I can’t do that. Even for myself… I want to think my way out of sadness, disappointment, failure, or falling short. And it just compounds itself when I can’t.
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Most people feel that way, I think. It’s hard to just listen when someone is obviously in pain. But the most important thing really is to listen — really listen, not nod while staring at one’s phone (will not mention a name but you already know anyway)… and really tell the person you care… a hug… and hell, even an ‘everything will be alright…’ even if that’s a lie. Because thinking it’s going to be alright and thinking it’s not are the same — either way you could be believing something that will never be true. I struggle with that because I always assume the negative one is true. Because I’m such a positive and uplifting person. 😐 😀
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And you want to take that phone and either smash it to smithereens or place it somewhere extremely uncomfortable! And when it is in our nature to assume the worst, maybe we can be extra pleased when something works out? 😀 Right, Sunshine?
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Haha… I will admit this — I’m shocked when something works out! And yeah, probably extra pleased, too. Mostly because my brain is a roller coaster… 🙂
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Well hold on tight!
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