What’s the point? What good could possibly come from a lie?
I understand omission. Some things are better left unsaid.
BUT
If I ask you a question… point blank… even if you think I might be better off not knowing the answer… don’t fucking lie to me.
Guess what?
I’m going to find out anyway. Somehow, I always do. Maybe because I’m a fucking genius. And definitely because you’re a fucking moron.
Don’t worry… I won’t call you out. Maybe you’ll think all is forgiven. But I will know. I will always know. And apologizing doesn’t erase your act of dishonesty so don’t bother. I will remember.
Forgiving is possible. Forgetting is not.
I hope it was worth it.
what sandra thinks 
My goodness. I don’t know what happened, but you certainly didn’t deserve it.
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Thanks. I may be being a little dramatic… But it’s sort of a general, non-specific thought, too…
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Well, if that happened to me, that’s the kind of thing I’d be screaming in my head.
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I hope it was worth it.
When someone I love has lied to me, I’ve always said to myself……I wish I was worth it (the truth). In retrospect, intellectually know that person had his/her own baggage and reason, but emotionally, the chunk is missing. Takes a lot to get it back, if ever.
I’m so sorry if you’ve been hurt by a lie. Hugs and love to you.
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Thanks Kay. I am much too quick to forgive (though I don’t forget)… And I kind of curse myself for the quick-forgiving because it just happens again… and I hate to lose people so I become a doormat…
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I suppose I am too. I hate to lose people, too, and also feel terrible for possibly making another person feel rejected or abandoned. It’s crazy. Lol. 💜
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I’ve come to realize my wife rarely asks a question that she doesn’t already know the answer to. I’m guessing most women are similar. I’m with you though, lying is shitty, and erodes trust quicker than anything else can.
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Yes it does. And though I never forget, I think I need to stop forgiving as easily as I do because then it just keeps happening and I’m a doormat…
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Yep. At some point, you gotta put a foot down…or in someone’s ass…or that is precisely what’ll happen. 💪🏻
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Yes.
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😃
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Thinking of you, Lovely. If you ever need a badass bitch to back you up, count me in your posse. I hate a liar.
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Thank you so much. ♥
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Oh my! I hope everything’s ok! 😦 ❤
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I guess I should just not expect so much of people. But honesty shouldn’t be too much!
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Right, it’s not like we’re politicians… 😜
How’d the party go? And the cake? 😋
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It was good once I got past the bursting into tears in the beginning with my mom and sisters. It was low-key which was good for me. The cake was perfect… I always figure box cake mix is good and there’s no need to make it from scratch so I haven’t done it in a long time, but it was so much better.
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Aw, sweetie! The tears… 💔 I’m glad the cake turned out. I hope you share the recipe for it! 😋
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I have a hard time seeing my family lately. They all have their shit together, some more than others, but all way more than I do. It’s not them… it’s me. They love me… they’re not doing anything… it just hurts to be around them sometimes because I’m such a failure.
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Failure/success is very subjective, it shouldn’t be measured the same way or scale for everyone. You’re not a failure!
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I guess the problem is that I believe I am…
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And changing your thinking isn’t easy….
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Honesty is always better. Period.
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Yes it is!
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aww dang! Hugs Sandra!! I can’t bring myself to like this post…I feel like I would just be supporting this feeling of betrayal. But I will offer the use of my ginger rage to beat whoever made you feel this way *she said smiling a sweet angelic smile with evil thoughts glinting out of her eyes*
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Haha… thanks. I’m sure I’m overly sensitive or dramatic… but liars just make me mad… and leave me disappointed.
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You are not being overly sensitive or dramatic. Lairs are horrible! I can tolerate “white lies” like “hey omg are you throwing me a birthday party?” “oooo nooo totally not? It’s your birthday? Gawwwd I hate you…” *hides guest list* type lying. But other than that there’s no need to lie to people. And I will go angry ginger on their butts.
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I just really hate when I ask a question and the answer I get is a lie. Not that I have to know everything… but if I ask? Give me the truth, you know?
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Yeah I totally get it. I’m the exact same way. It’s so much better to hear the truth than a lie. A truth I can move on from, a lie I have to deal with your dishonesty AND the truth
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And the worst part is feeling like you can’t trust that person at all anymore… so you’re lied to AND you’ve lost a friend, pretty much.
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Yeah 😟
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I hope whatever happened gets worked out. I really don’t like liars. Hugs! ❤
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Thanks Vic. ♥
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Your post is wonderful. Nobody deserves to hear lies but on some notes a lie or 2 do have to be spoken
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Thank you.
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I’m sorry you were lied to, Sandra. It’s so painful when someone you love breaks your trust.
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Thank you, m. ♥
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💗
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I’ll never understand why
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Me neither.
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This exact thing happened at work over the last two weeks. Pro tip: Lying to HR will win you a spot on the unemployment line….
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Sometimes, people suck!
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You spelled “frequently” wrong… 🙂
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Haha
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