I am not a selfish woman. Okay, maybe I’m a little selfish. I did hide those dark chocolate caramels Santa brought me so I wouldn’t have to share. But under normal, dark-chocolate-caramel-free circumstances, I don’t take much for me.
In my especially relaxed state while my lovely stylist washed my hair last weekend, I decided I should do a few more things for myself. Nothing extravagant. I am unemployed after all. But this may not happen again for months… I figured I could swing it.
My hair. I love my hair. I mentioned this a couple of weeks ago – I even shared a picture. But this week… I had the pleasure of the lovely, massage-like hair washing… a little touch up… and a trim. I didn’t change it much… I don’t think. You tell me… [It’s not usually such a mess! It was windy!]
Contact. I told John I wanted time with him. Not for that. Actually, yes, for that, at first. But then I felt sick and vomiting is not sexy. I wanted time with him anyway. So he leaned back on the headboard, and I rested my head on his chest and we talked. Nothing serious or stressful. We just cuddled up and talked about whatever came to mind. Like we used to… but haven’t for a very long time.
Spoiled. I do not generally spend money on things I can do myself. But I haven’t paid for a pedicure in months. And it may be months before I do it again, but oh, I love it. It was warm and relaxing and wonderful. I could have stayed and let her massage my feet for hours. [That, I cannot afford.] I’m not sure I’m completely satisfied with the shade of pink we chose (I don’t have a picture at the moment), but the color is not important. It’s the whole process I love.
Progress. I have been struggling with my job search for quite a while. The main part of my struggle being I don’t wanna. I start having heightened anxiety, on the way to a panic attack, whenever I try to search or do anything at all related. But… this week, I applied for two jobs. Wrote the agonizing letters and clicked them away with my résumé into the great human resources abyss. I may hear nothing but I did it. I know I need to do more, two in a week is not great. But I did this. Without a panic attack.
And to top it all off, today I saw the first commercial for the spring coffees at Dunkin’ Donuts. Butter Pecan is back. My life is complete.
Now, if only that quarter I planted in the back yard would sprout into my new money tree, I’d be all set.
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I may lose my man-card here, but….I love a good pedicure too. It feels divine. Is that bad? 😃
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I think it’s quite honest that you admit it… Many men wouldn’t. 🙂 You may keep your man-card.
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Whew! Thanks! I’ve only had two, ever, but they were fantabulous! 😃
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If I had the space and money, I swear I’d look into getting a big comfy chair and a heated foot bath for home… 🙂
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Haha! I don’t blame ya’. 😃
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I love the way your hair looks, even though it’s only the back of your head. 🙂 I’m a plain coffee guy, but I do love single estate coffees. And no, I’ve never had a pedicure.
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Hey, I’m supposed to be anonymous. You’re lucky you get any part of my head… 😛
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Well, the same can be said of me. 😉
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Oh dear…. I knew that head comment was bait as soon as I hit send… 🙂
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Chumming the waters, are we?
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It was an accident… or it was subconscious… 😛
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I’ll go with an conscious act of subliminality.
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I suppose I can accept that….
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Good, because I was worried that you’d call me out on whether or not subliminality was a word or not. Whew.
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Oh… I make up words to suit my needs all the time… And I just remembered I’m supposed to be calling you Woody…. Man, you’re lucky my memory sucks…
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Woody!? Nah, that’s just in the morning. And when I get frosted flakes.
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I’m ready for breakfast… 🙂
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The kids are at school, so you don’t need the benadryl. I’ll bring by the flakes, and a Killers CD.
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I’ll be waiting….
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I’ll assume that the front door is best? 😀 I’ll not tinker too much with the door knob this time.
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Really? I kind of liked the tinkering… 😛
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Yeah, but yesterday I twisted that knob too much I think. I don’t want to break the front door!
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Oh yes, that would be bad. If I don’t answer right away… Use the knocker. (Hahaha… I couldn’t resist!)
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To quote Gene Wilder from Young Frankenstein – “What knockers!”
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I love pedicures but only a couple times a year then I can do it myself. I love your hair and love your honesty in posting all that. We woman hardly ever take time for ourselves and we should. If that money tree thing works, would you let me know? 🙂
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If I could I would get pedicures at least once a week… But yeah… I go only a couple times a year, too. The rest of the time I work on my contortionist moves and do it myself. Will definitely let you know about the money tree! 🙂
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If the tree does well, I’m going for the pedicures … in Tahiti…
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See you there!!
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😉
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Ah the pedicure. You had to remind me. Happy you and Joh had QT. That is important, just as important as the horizontal mambo.
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Haha… Sorry… I just love pedicures. 🙂 But I am only ticklish if someone is too gentle. I guess I need a firm touch….. hmm, I guess that applies to any horizontal dances as well. And I’m a little surprised you have no comment on my messy wind blown hair….. 😛
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You hair….should be in a museum of art, but then again, your head just wouldn’t be the same without it.
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You’re very sweet. And you’re right…bald would not work for me…
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Nope. Well, if I remember your comments correctly, you have awesome boobs. Maybe you could get away with bald if eyes are looking at other places… Just saying
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Hahaha… hey… my eyes are up here. Which doesn’t matter because I appreciate a man who appreciates my other attributes…
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Well, I would gaze into yoour eyes, but I wouldn’t want the boobies to feel unloved. You know I am a loving man.
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Yes, I have no doubt you would appreciate all… features…
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I am an equal opportunity perv
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It’s one of the things well-loved about you…
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LOL
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Your hair is beautiful, enjoy your coffee, and good luck with the jobs!
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Thank you, Kay!
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You’re welcome.
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What soapy stuff! I just love you and your writings.
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Thank you!
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Love the hair, must try the coffee. Good luck with the job quest.
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Thank you so much! The coffee is a little sweet (no other sweetener needed) but the flavor is just…yum! Every fall I have a dark day when they take my flavor away… 😀
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I feel that way in the winter when Starbuck’s takes away their pumpkin spice latte. I’m kidding. That stuff is nasty.:)
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Hahaa.. I don’t understand the obsession some have with pumpkin spice anything. I am not a fan!
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Me either! Meh!
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LOVE the hair. JEALOUS of the pedicure. HAPPY for the talk and connection. PROUD of the job search progress. THRILLED to call you a friend. 🙂
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Thank you… xo ♥
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Oh, and don’t be too jealous of the pedicure… I probably won’t have another ‘professional’ one for 6 months… 😀
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I’m only able to get a couple a year myself. Just not a luxury I can do. But if I ever get a Sugar Daddy…this bitch will have her toes done EVERY day! 🙂
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That sounds like an excellent plan. I’m going to need one of those, too. 🙂
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Want to go halfsy on an ad with me?
Wanted: Two Sugar Daddies, or One REALLY Rich one.
Only RICHLY qualified applicants should apply.
What do you think?
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I think that would definitely work. And when he’s out, busy getting richer for us, I’m sure we’ll find plenty to do…
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We could shop, travel, massages, mani-pedi, dine, play. 😉
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That’s lots of activity… I had only thought about the last one. Okay, massages, too. I love those… 😉
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LOL!! DAMN I REALLY LIKE YOU!! 🙂
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I like to… enjoy myself. And others. 🙂
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